Did I mention I became a grandmother this year? (This is
where I pause so that you can say “Oh, but you don’t look old enough to be a grandma!”)
That one tiny person has turned our lives upside down, not least because we’ve
spent a large proportion of our free time these last few months traipsing across
the Pennines and back in order to indulge in as many cuddles as we can get away
with.
For our daughter and son-in-law it’s been even more unsettling.
Every activity has to be planned around the baby’s feeds and naps, and each
outing requires a boot-full of equipment and clean clothes. And although they
specifically requested one of those magical babies who sleeps through the night
after the first month, the order must have got mixed up somehow as they ended
up with an otherwise delightful child who thinks sleeping is for losers.
Disruptive events, however, can give a real boost to our
writing. Unexpected plot twists and dramatic scenes are great for keeping the
story moving and holding the reader’s attention. Writing courses often
emphasise the importance of having a good “hook” that will draw the reader in.
And after all, who wants to read a book where nothing much happens? Even
non-fiction can benefit from the addition of a gripping anecdote.
The idea of an astonishing event transforming the whole of
the narrative is particularly pertinent at this time of year as we remember how
a seemingly insignificant birth in an obscure corner of the Roman world changed
history forever. In this Advent season, may I encourage you to stop and focus
on the mystery of the incarnation as we celebrate the Master Author writing the
greatest story of them all.
Fiona Lloyd is a member of the Association of
Christian Writers and writes regularly for Together magazine. Her first novel,
The Diary of a (trying
to be holy) Mum, was published by Instant Apostle in 2018. Fiona
also works for Christians Against Poverty.
Twitter: @FionaJLloyd &
@FionaLloyd16
Thank you Fiona, this is a lovely reminder, and also very true and helpful. Let's "think positive" about being disruptive and also having our routines and expectations disrupted! (Sheila aka SC Skillman)
ReplyDeleteSo true. I was thinking this through yesterday while out looking for presents and worrying about getting the right/wrong thing. Why do we try and make Christmas so 'perfect' in order to celebrate what was perhaps the most disruptive event in history and, more than that, one which started in such messy circumstances?
ReplyDeleteA lovely thought-provoking blog. Any mention of babies and I'm instantly hooked! The story of Jesus's birth is so full of symbolism, it never fails to draw a crowd. The lowliest of shepherds and the wisest of the men from the East, simple or thoughtful, boisterous or silent, all are welcome to draw near and ponder. What is this all about? What does it all mean?
ReplyDeleteFiona, great to hear you are enjoying grandmotherhood! Yes, disruptions can be a blessing if we look at them from God's point of view. I tend to see them as wow is me another interruption, but I'm learning. Lovely post.
ReplyDeleteLovely post, Fiona. Thank you. Huge congrats on joing the Grandma Club! Wishing you many more as well. Yes, the incarnation is still a mystery to mankind and the greatest story of all. It heralds the busiest season and multiple disruptions. Some pleasant and some unpleasant. Yet, the reason for the season is often forgotten by many. May the season fulfil God's purpose in our lives as writers to His glory. Blessings.
ReplyDeleteI always say that change is here to stay, but it has to be managed properly or it can cause disruption. Having said that, some disruption is good and the birth of Jesus is a great example. Congratulations on becoming a grandma.
ReplyDeleteJust back from walking/carrying my one-year-old granddaughter around a few lanes, play areas, a wooden owl that apparently had to be kissed...and no-one stopped me to say I look too young to be a granddad! I will take your advice and consider Advent as The Disruption and look forward to Trellis in the New Year!
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