What's in a Name? by Sharon Hazel
Names are important and they do reveal a lot about us. A name may identify nationality, but what about social background or age? There are trends for names, which certainly identify the ‘generation’ of when that name was popular – there won’t be a Sharon in primary school now!
Apparently, our own name is one
of the first sounds that we learn to recognise. According to child development
experts our personal name is an important part of speech, and infants learn to
recognise their own specific name from about 6 months old. What we think of the
choice of our name is a different matter. Some people, from childhood, choose not
to use what is on their birth certificate. They have their own version of their
name. A name may be abbreviated, we may change the spelling, we may prefer to
use a second or third name. Or we may have become known by a ‘nickname’ and
accept that as part of our identity.
When my boys were primary school
age, I remember my father telling them that his friend Ginge, whom I had met,
was coming to dinner. They were chatting away with their Grandad about Ginge,
when I thought I should point out that Ginge was not his real name. His name
was Eirwyn. Grandad then had to explain why he called his friend ‘Ginge.’ My
eldest son responded that somewhere along the way, Grandad should have changed
his name to ‘Snowy.’ Which actually was very apt, for ‘Eirwyn’ means white as snow.
“Names call us to become who we
will be¹”
Names have meaning, and some parents give careful consideration when naming their children. Whereas others seem to be slightly careless in their choices, either unimaginative or, possibly even worse, too imaginative. Historically we have a lot of the former in Wales.
Biblically names are considered highly
significant. Whether the name prophetically reveals the potential of that
person, or summarises their life story, or may even reveal the extent of their
rebellion. The name makes a statement. In fact sometimes, there is a ‘mini’
story just in the name!
Here then are a few examples, to reflect
on the power of a name.
In the book of Genesis God
changed Abram’s name, which meant (God is)’exalted Father,’ to Abraham meaning
‘father of many.’ This was confirmation of God’s promise and covenant with
Abraham, that his offspring would be as numerous as the stars in the sky. His
name confirmed who he would be, calling to him from the future. He did not see it in
his own lifetime, but we know that the promise has been fulfilled. Ultimately,
all who belong to Christ are Abraham’s offspring.
The book of Esther tells the
story of a young Israelite girl, propelled into a position, with the opportunity to appeal for the
deliverance of her people from mass destruction. The name Esther is not the
name she was given at birth - it is derived from the Persian word for ‘star.’ Her
Hebrew name, though, was Hadassah meaning ‘myrtle’ which is the symbol for love
and marriage. But love and marriage were not part of Hadassah’s path. Star was
a far more appropriate name. Although she may have only had a brief period in
the spotlight in her own lifetime, her star still shines brightly. Even now, her
actions are commemorated every year, two and a half thousand years later.
Then we have the example of
someone like Samson. His name is derived from a Hebrew word meaning ‘sun’ or
‘brightness.’ Which becomes so poignant and sad when you think that this is a
man who rebelled against God and ended his life living in the dark. But maybe, even in that darkness, there is a glimmer of the light of restoration…
And then what about, one of my
favourite mini-stories, the man known as Ebed-Melek. He was from Cush, but we find
him far from home, living in Jerusalem at a time of war and conflict. ‘Ebed-Melek’ means ‘king’s servant’ - so was that really his name? It certainly was
his job. Could it be because he was a foreigner, with no family links, that he
was accepted and known by his job title rather than by his real name. This
obscure character was the man who risked his own life to speak up and save the
life of the prophet Jeremiah. Is the writer making a point here, that he was
‘Ebed-Melek’ because he was the servant of ‘The King of Kings?’
And in the New Testament what
about Simon, which means ‘listen’ or ‘hearing’. Simon did not do either of
those particularly well in the gospels. He often only heard what he wanted to
hear! But Jesus changed his name to Peter, meaning rock. A name which called
him to be, who he became to be.
Then in the early church there
was Joseph, which means ‘may he add’. His name was changed by the apostles, who
called him Barnabas meaning ‘son of encouragement’. They recognised Barnabas’
character as being full of generosity, in supporting and encouraging others. He
became universally known by his nickname. Perhaps he fulfilled both his
names, adding courage, and building faith in all those he met.
Maybe, the apostle John had it
right. His name means ‘the Lord is gracious,’ but in his gospel he never refers
to himself by name. Instead he refers to himself as ‘the disciple whom Jesus
loved’.
Ultimately, that is what matters, that God calls us by name and that we hear and respond to His voice.
“What marvellous love the Father
has extended to us! Just look at it – we’re called children of God! That’s who
we really are.” 1 John 3:1MSG
The name that He calls us to be,
the name that determines our future…
¹Run with Horses by Eugene Peterson
Sharon Hazel receives
inspiration from the beauty of the coastline where she lives in Wales and blogs
at https://limitless-horizon.com. Competing for her time, is her part-time job
as a civil servant, a horse, two Jack Russell dogs and not forgetting a patient husband!
I love reading about names, Sharon. You're right - not many Sharons around these days. My primary school class was full of Marks, Davids, Adrians, Susans, Lisas and Alisons. Funny how names go. I really enjoyed reading this and learned loads. I'd forgotten all about Barnabas!
ReplyDeleteI often get sidetracked to dwell on details, so yes, I love looking at the meaning of names! I did look up the top ten boys and girls names for 2020 which came out as 'Asher' and 'Luna,' which in my schooldays would have been weird but obviously on trend now!
DeleteI was horrified, when checking my wife into the clinic in Basel for a Caesarian section, that I had to fill in a form with both a girl's and a boy's name (we didn't know which it would be), before we'd even seen the baby. They even had a comprehensive list of permissible names, although that wasn't strictly enforced. For me, the name should reflect something of the personality, appearance, family heritage or calling of the little person, although, of course, such things are hard to determine with a newborn baby.
ReplyDeleteThat is a bizarre request! And yes even with a newborn baby, sometimes they seem to suit one name more than another!
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