What are you committed to? By Andrew J Chamberlain
This week I visited my new spiritual director for a first
meeting. I had a delightful hour talking about family, faith, and church, and
in the middle of the conversation she asked me a question which made me pause
and think:
“What are you committed to?”
What made this a challenging and useful question was the
word ‘committed’. In being asked this question she didn’t want to know about
what I liked doing, or what amused me, or my hobbies, it was about what I was committed to.
Once I started to think about this, I found that the list
was pretty short. Family, spending time with God, and my writing and related
projects were together about the sum of it. I was encouraged by the fact that,
when I answered this question as honestly as I could, writing and related
activities were on that list. It seems that deep down within me I am not
‘playing’ at this writing business, it really does mean something to me.
This is good news, especially given the challenges that
writing presents to anyone who is at all serious about the craft.
So now I am offering the same question to you; what are you
committed to? As you are most likely reading this to yourself, you will be able
to ask the question privately and answer it privately; but once you’ve answered
it, you might find it helpful to review that answer with someone else that you
trust, you may even want to share your thoughts with others on the ACW Facebook
page.
I’d dare to say that most of us would include writing in
some form in our answers to this question. If this is true the challenge for us
is to work out what the consequences of that answer are, but I think that is a
subject for another post.
Andrew Chamberlain is a writer and creative
writing tutor. He is a commercial publisher of fiction and memoir and the
presenter of the creative writer’s podcast: The
Creative Writer’s Toolbelt,
he is also the author of The
Creative Writer’s Toolbelt Handbook which
contains the best advice and insight from 100 episodes of the podcast.
Thank you so much for this question, Andrew. This has really helped me today. I have been struggling with this question over the last few weeks and now, as I have been praying, I have my answer. Without sounding really spiritual, my answer is God. If I am passionately committed to God then everything else in my life, marriage, family, church, writing etc will fall into the right place and only then.
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