Closure


 

As I prepare to visit South Africa probably for the last time after a forty-year association, I have been reflecting on closure. This journey is important to finalise banking matters after the premature death of my daughter in 2020. It will be a journey tinged with sadness yet so many happy memories of my children growing up will linger.


The bible teaches us that there is a season and a cycle for everything. It is difficult to grasp when you are young. Childhood seems to go on forever as you long to be a teenager. In your twenties you dream of either babies or a career. Time passes so quickly so before you know it, you’re in the ‘twilight’ years. It’s strange isn’t how one theme carries over to many areas of life.  My garden is going through my summer closing down procedure. The pots are washed. The greenhouse and potting shed have been tidied. Half-hardy and delicate plants have been put inside. Just a little while longer and the dahlias will be cut back and dug up for storage.

  Writing too demands closure. A suitable dignified ending is vital whatever genre you are in. The trend seems to be a discordant, confusing, sometimes challenging end which can leave the nerves jarred and on edge. It is recommended to be a knife-edge twist and turn at the end of every chapter to keep the reader interested and engaged. Often a problem or challenge is not resolved. You may say that’s life. Yet writing and reading are not life. There are opportunities to leave the readers satisfied and complete. The problems can be ‘aired’ if not solved. They do not need to be hinted at and then left to rot under the blanket. I could argue that a Christian writer is duty bound to bring faith and hope to the end of their story, but before you throw the eggs, I’ll submit in love to those who would argue for a cliff-hanger.

  Publishers and agents demand an excellent beginning. Often, they only ask for the first few chapters to read. Endings are just as important. Perhaps you are like me – full of good ideas and able to make great beginnings but slow off in the middle and come to a halt at the end. Whatever it is, finish it. Finish it with dignity, and love. Andrew Graystone at the AGM talk, said when you’ve finished writing, cut off the last sentence. He didn’t say why but I suspect it was to avoid an aeroplane landing. I’m open to suggestions why he said that.

   I’m reminded that our Lord Jesus did finish with dignity and love. At the end he made sure his mum was cared for, reassured his disciples by extraordinary appearances and then with love he went back to heaven. His last words before his death according to John’s gospel, concur, “It is finished.” (John 19:30)

 

Rosalie Weller is an ordained minister in the Uniting Presbyterian church of Southern Africa. She is now retired and writing in the East Midlands. Her writing interests are broad, including writing bible study guides, historical fiction and poetry. All her books are available from Amazon. For more information see her website www.rosalieweller.com

 

Comments

  1. Lovely encouraging blog Rosalie. Getting started is even harder for some. I always use the Mastermind catchphrase - 'I've started so I'll finish.' I always have several WiPs on the go, so finishing means the continuation of another.

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    1. Thanks Bredan hope the Bookfest is going well!!

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  2. What a lovely post, Rosalie. I'm so sorry to read about your daughter. Yes, you're right. So much contemporary literature leaves one feeling depressed or confused. A good, satisfying and happy ending can really raise the spirits.

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  3. Thank you, Rosalie ... I have often heard that as Christian writers we do well to include a note or hint of Redemption (in some form). And I hope your visit to South Africa will enable you to experience rays of joy as they shine through those clouds of sadness.

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  4. Yes, I believe that the way an author chooses to end a novel defines what it is all about. I do like bittersweet endings and I don't like it when everything is perfectly tied up or is sentimental. Nevertheless I do understand why so many readers want 'cosy' reads that uplift and warm the hearts. They need and seek escapism. Classic story structure, skilfully handled, should always carry the power to redeem and uplift, because is true to who we are, and we recognise that structure deep within ourselves, in the world and in life.

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  5. Life certainly teaches us that 'happily ever after' is not, unfortunately, the ending of every chapter, and none of us is wrapped in cotton wool. It's having Jesus walk through the valleys with us that makes all the difference. Not just a nice thought, but the gritty reality. I hope your SA visit is everything that you need it to be. The sun is shining here today!

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  6. Warm sunshine sounds like just the medicine the doctor ordered

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  7. A thought--provoking blog. Life does include so may joys and so much sadness, and so many steep learning curves too. I hope you have a very happy time remembering all your good times and the challenges of the sad times, too.

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  8. Wonderful Rosalie. It’s often difficult to finish what we have started. It takes a strong and determined person to do that. Which you always have shown us by example. What a wonderful picture of you both. Melodie 🙂

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  9. Lovely post! It reminds me of the saying, 'what is worth doing is worth doing well'. May God grant you closure when you visit South Africa. Really loved all the scriptures shared. Blessings.

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