You really are an interesting person, if you dare to be honest. By Andrew J Chamberlain
I’m a fan of a YouTube channel called The School of Life.
The channel presents a contemporary, philosophical
perspective on how to live well. It’s doesn’t have a Christian perspective, but
it does often present solutions and insights which are in line with Christian
thought and principle.
A recent episode focused on the thorny social question of
“how not to be boring”. In that episode, the secret to not being boring was revealed
as being able to speak honestly, especially about what we desire, what we are
passionate about.
In the episode, the narrator said this:
“The human
animal witnessed in its essence with honesty and without artifice is always
interesting. When we call a person
boring we are just pointing to someone who has not had the courage or
concentration to tell us what it’s like to be them. By contrast we invariably
prove compelling when we say what we truly desire, envy, regret, mourn and
dream.”
Scripture has a
high opinion of truth. We are told that we will ‘know the truth and it will set
us free’ (John Ch 8 v32) We are exhorted not to bear false witness against our
neighbour, and not to lie to each other. As Christians, we know the value of
honesty.
And there’s a
lesson here for us as writers as well.
The quote from The School of Life gives us an important
clue about how we can help to make our writing compelling and engrossing for
the reader. We must be honest, we must speak candidly about our passions, our
fears, our dilemmas.
I think this is
true for fiction and non-fiction. To draw on the quote above, if we want our
characters to be interesting I think we should present them with some degree of
honesty. This doesn’t mean they can’t lie to other characters, but at some
level we must present who they really are.
I think this
issue has been difficult for Christians and Christian writing. There has been a
tendency for us to shy away from some of the ragged and raw aspects of human
life. We have been wary of appearing to be too gratuitous in our gritty portrayal
of reality. We have been cautious about pandering to the world by mimicking its
worst aspects too closely.
But honesty is
never gratuitous, it’s hard work to find this kind of truth, but if can
breakthrough to the real issues, the real passions, the real questions, then we
will find a very real audience.
Andrew Chamberlain is a writer and creative writing tutor.
He is the presenter of The Creative Writer’s Toolbelt, a podcast that offers practical, accessible
advice on the craft. Andrew has published fiction and collaborated on a number
of ghost-writing projects through Authentic Media, including the bestselling,
'Once an Addict' with Barry Woodward. He has also self-published a number of science
fiction short stories.
Very interesting. I think sometimes this may be a personality thing too. Some people are happy to express their views here, there and everywhere, others less so. But the point you make about honesty in writing is true, particularly when done with integrity. Great post.
ReplyDeleteThanks Deborah, I think you are right about this being a function of personality, especially in terms of how easy, or hard someone finds it to share their personal lives with others. Also I think this is not about people being narcissistic, it's about honesty and humility I think. Andy
ReplyDeleteThanks for this. It is helpful. Much of the feedback I have had about my books point to honesty being the reason they are helpful. I have found preaching honestly has the same effect.
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Thanks Lynda, I do think that honesty, and it's related virtue, authenticity, compel people to pay attention to what is being said or written, it's what captures people.
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