Writing from a place of rest By Claire Musters
During the summer
our church has been doing a preaching series on rest. Last Sunday my husband
Steve and I spoke, focusing on working from a place of rest, which is something
that God has been talking to me about a lot this year.
I know that many
of us fit our writing around other jobs – and even if writing is your main job
it can still seem like there is never enough time in the day for it.
Here is what God
has been teaching me about resting in Him as I start each day rather than
rushing on with my ‘to do’ list…
The importance of ordering my day
I try to remember
to ask him to order my day before I
hit the to do list. I have found when I do this it really makes a difference –
and I think part of that is heart attitude, as I’m giving the control over to
God before I start running away with it myself.
Starting the day in silence with Him
I am someone who
can’t sit down and relax until all the jobs are done. God challenged me, saying
that He knew I did give Him time as soon as dropping the kids off but I always
seemed to be racing against the clock while they were at school. He asked me to
take time out with Him in silence, and concentrate simply on connecting with Him.
Sometimes I say a
simple prayer such as ‘come Lord Jesus’; at other times I concentrate on
breathing more deeply and slowly as that helps tension to go, and say a phrase
as I do so, such as ‘Be still’ (‘be’ when I breathe in and ‘still’ when I
breathe out. Or ‘Come, rest’).
I know in our
world that silence is quite alien but, more and more, I am learning that it is
in the silence that we connect more deeply with God.
As I learned in
the book study group I help run, when we studied Having a Mary Heart in Martha world, it is about establishing the
centre (connecting ours with His), and allowing everything to work out from
that place (like the centre of a wheel and the spokes coming off of it).
The importance of prayerful prioritising
Rather than
simply working out the priorities of the day myself I bring them before God. Sometimes
this simply means reading my ‘to do’ list out, offering it to Him and asking
for His perspective, to point out the things that I can simply drop for that
day.
Sometimes I pray
for God to show me the ‘one thing’ that He wants me to do, and I purposefully
leave all the rest (which is so
against my nature!). It is interesting to see how the things I thought were so
important are simply no longer necessary once I’ve let them go for a little
while…
Be open to the unexpected
When we give our
work over to God He can sometimes bring things or people into our days that
hadn’t been on our horizons at all. When that would happen before I would get
stressed and sometimes tell God I couldn’t deal with it because I was working.
I’m learning to
prayerfully consider whether an interruption is something that God has brought
into my day – and when it is my life has certainly been enriched. I’ve also
seen God enlarge my capacity in order for this to happen.
Claire is a freelance
writer, speaker and editor, mum to two gorgeous young children, pastor’s wife,
worship leader and school governor. Claire’s desire is to help others draw
closer to God through her writing, which focuses on authenticity, marriage,
parenting, worship, discipleship, issues facing women today etc. Her books
include Taking your Spiritual Pulse, CWR’s Insight Into Managing
Conflict, Insight Into Self-acceptance, Cover to Cover: David A man
after God’s own heart, Insight Into Burnout and BRF
Foundations21 study guides on Prayer and Jesus. She also writes
Bible study notes. She has two books being published in November: Taking off
the mask: learning to live authentically, with Authentic Media, and Cover
to Cover: 1–3 John Walking in the truth, with CWR. To find out more about
her, please visit www.clairemusters.com and @CMusters on Twitter.
Thank you for this Claire. I have found it very helpful. I know God has been speaking to me about rest. I started trying to make sure I have a proper Sabbath each week but since doing that I am more aware that I need to live each day from a place of resting in him. I will try some of these things tomorrow.
ReplyDeleteAs an inveterate lists-slave, I really appreciated this post. Like you, I am trying to 'work from rest' and not vice versa. It's hard!
ReplyDeleteLoved this post Claire, will go check out the Mary heart in a Martha world. I also like Tony Horsfall's "Rhythms of grace" and "An unhurried life" by Alan Fadling.
ReplyDeleteNeed to try the idea of taking my to do list to God.