Christian Writer: A Mature Approach to Challenges by Peculiar Medinus

 

Being a Christian writer comes with unique challenges. One of the most difficult things can be facing those who look down on you because of your faith or the perspective you bring to your work. Whether it’s criticism from peers, dismissive comments online, or scepticism from the publishing world, it can be tough not to take it personally. However, responding with maturity and grace not only reflects your values but can also influence others more powerfully than any argument.

1. Stay Rooted in Your Identity

Remember that your worth is not determined by others' opinions. Your identity lies in Christ, not in the approval of readers, critics, or colleagues. When negative remarks come your way, pause and remind yourself of your purpose as a writer and who you ultimately serve.

2. Respond, Don’t React

When you encounter disrespectful comments or condescension, it’s natural to feel upset. However, knee-jerk reactions rarely resolve anything. Take a deep breath before answering (if you choose to reply at all). Choose words that reflect calm and wisdom, not anger or resentment.

3. Engage with Kindness

Meeting criticism or mockery with kindness often diffuses hostility. Thank others for their feedback, even if it isn’t constructive. This approach could potentially surprise critics and change their perception of you. The words you use and the patience you show speak to your character and values.

4. Seek Constructive Criticism

There is a difference between someone who looks down on you and someone who offers helpful critique. Learn to distinguish between the two. Don’t dismiss all criticism outright; instead, look for genuine advice that can help improve your work, regardless of its source.

5. Build a Supportive Community

Connect with other Christian writers and supportive readers. A strong network provides encouragement, shared experiences, and practical advice. Engaging with a like-minded community helps you maintain perspective and resilience.

6. Pray for Wisdom and Strength

Turning to prayer for guidance allows you to process hurtful encounters healthily. Ask for the wisdom to respond with grace and the strength to persevere in your calling, regardless of opposition.

7. Keep Your Eyes on the Mission

Ultimately, your purpose as a Christian writer isn’t to please everyone but to write truthfully and honour God through your words. Criticism and dismissal will come, but staying focused on your mission will give you the determination to continue sharing your message.