A Sense of Belonging



                                                                Picture credit: English Heritage 

 “When a man is tired of London, he is tired of life” - so said Samuel Johnson to his friend and biographer James Boswell in 1777.

A little while ago, my wife and I were in London to celebrate my birthday. We were heading towards the west end for a meal at one of Yotam Ottolenghi's restaurants but, being a Sunday, I also wanted to attend a service at my childhood church. This is the Crown Court Church of Scotland, quietly nestled among the theatres in Covent Garden. As we approached the church, we passed the blue plaque pictured above. Not everyone is a fan of the big city, but I agree with Johnson.

I enjoyed the service very much. It serves as a home from home for Scots in London. As newcomers in the 1960s, my parents attended there, no doubt drawn by the desire for familiarity and the company of fellow Scots. On another day, the service would have been in Gaelic, and they were all set for a ceilidh the following weekend. The service ended with the sharing of a wedding cake sent down from Aberdeen by the happy couple.

Afterwards, as we strolled the short distance to the restaurant, we passed a Swiss church, their service just concluding, a Chinese church and the Australian Hillsong, with members from across the globe. Birds of a feather flock together. Indeed, in London it’s possible to attend a church from almost anywhere in the world. One university advises their students there are Armenian, Assyrian, Belarussian, Chinese Mandarin, Egyptian Coptic, Ethiopian, Greek, Hungarian, Iranian, Italian, Korean, Russian and Slovakian churches. The only surprising thing about this list is that it misses all the others. You may as well just list the entire world, A-Z.

Now to the restaurant. Ottolenghi’s food has its roots in Middle Eastern and Mediterranean traditions but also wins acclaim for his diverse influences and use of elements from around the world. Much like London itself, his food is a melting pot of ingredients and styles. Each of his restaurants has a different menu. I chose this one partly because of the use of an unusual ingredient I’ve never seen on a menu. This was crowdie, described for diners as a cheese made by crofters in the northeast of Scotland. My grandmother was just such a person and made the cheese. She might have made more had she known the price of it in the west end!

My main work in progress is a novel entitled ‘A Sense of Belonging’. Even though I'm a Londoner and just an occasional visitor to the Church of Scotland, I have a strong sense of belonging when I am there. I wonder how many nationalities there are in ACW and how many languages are spoken among us? Is there anything you do or anywhere you go when you want a touch of home? What gives you a sense of belonging?

Let us know in the comments, it would be great to hear.

I wish you a blessed week. 

Comments

  1. Great story David. I want to go to that restaurant now. I have a sense of belonging when people make you feel welcome and don't subject you to too much of an inquisition.

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    1. Thanks Brendan, being accepted for who you are...yes that is a great feeling.

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  2. Sometimes it is people rather than places that give me a sense of belonging, David. ACW folk are great at that! As for London, I'm not sure I'll ever go there again, but I'd have liked to visit the Thames Barrage.

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    1. Thanks Susan, people are always at the heart of feeling we belong somewhere.

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  3. I use to get so excited visiting the Dutch HEMA, a small shop in London. It was a miniature version of the one 'at home' but stocked all the important things like biscuits and chocolate... My kids love Dutch pancakes, especially the tiny ones with raisins, called three-in-a-pan, as you cover them with cinnamon sugar... Thank you for this lovely blog, it just reminded me how important food and smells are in our stories!

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  4. Thanks Maressa, yes food and smells are so powerful in our memories...the smell of shoe polish takes me immediately to the cupboard under the stairs in my Nana's house.

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  5. Beautiful post, David! Thank you for the tours, information and inspiring questions asked. Wow! It would be nice to know how many world flags ACW's can boast of on its next birthday! I love SE London. I can find foods, clothings and churches that speak home! Attending a Nigerian party gives me a sense of belonging! Hey David! You didn't mention what you ate apart from that unique cheese you mentioned. As for your book, I love the inspiring title. I might be cheeky about that in my writing! Blessings.

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  6. Glad you like it, I like SE London too!

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  7. Oddly I have just been to the capital on two successive weekends. The first, visiting two daughters and attending a Sunday morning service at St John's in Hackney, and the other, at a Thanksgiving Service held at St Mark's, opposite the Oval cricket ground. St John's had the exterior of a typical CofE church but its interior given over to a wide stage with impressive worship-rock-band style songs. St Mark's was CofE on the outside and retained much of the traditional CoE character on the inside. At both, I felt equally at home. Neither was stiff or formal. The singing came from the heart, genuine faith converted into explosive worship from black, white, and all nationalities - Nepalese, Canadian, French....a foretaste of home!

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  8. Thanks John, yes there's nothing better than a diverse congregation worshipping together.

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