Making space, by Nicki Copeland
I was hoping that in this blog post I would be sharing with
you something of my recent visit to the Holy Land. Having never been there
before, I was planning to visit earlier this month. However, Covid-19 put paid
to that, and the trip was quite rightly cancelled, at very short notice.
However, having had a very busy and demanding few months, I
knew I still had to get away for a few days. So I took the opportunity to go on
retreat for a few days at St Katharine’s Parmoor near Henley-on-Thames. (It’s a
lovely place – highly recommended.) I phoned on the Monday morning and not only
did they welcome me the same day, they even offered me lunch! So I quickly
packed my bag – which hadn’t actually been unpacked from the planned Israel
trip – and headed off.
I was there until the Friday, and for most of the time I was
the only guest. For an introvert such as I am, it was bliss! I prayed, I read
the Bible, I went for walks, and I read through five and a half of The
Chronicles of Narnia books. I read the other book and a half after I got
home.
It was such a gift to be welcomed and so well looked after,
and I deeply appreciated the break from work, not to mention not having to wash
clothes, cook dinners or answer emails.
Sometimes our plans change, often at the last minute.
Particularly at the moment, things are very uncertain from one day to the next.
Our plans might need to change, but, as the old saying goes, there is more than
one way to skin a cat. So we need to consider in what other ways our goals can
still be achieved. How can we reach the same destination by going via a
different path?
Perhaps, like me, you’re used to having the house to
yourself all day and every day when your family or housemates go to work, and
you’ll need to adjust to having people around. Perhaps you live on your own and
need to adjust to not going out and interacting with people. Some of the
changes we face will be challenging; others will present us with opportunities.
The time away on retreat was a wonderful opportunity for me
to reconnect both with myself and with God. It has given me some new ideas for
writing, and seems to have enlarged the channels of communication with God, and
I seem to be able to hear him speaking more at the moment.
Perhaps, as life begins to slow down for many of us, this is
an opportunity to explore new ideas for writing, perhaps to even explore new
genres and developing new skills. Perhaps there’s a market for a recipe book
using the most random ingredients we find at the back of our kitchen cupboards,
who knows? (I do know I won’t be the one to write it, though…)
Our God is a very creative God. I wonder what he has in
store for us over the coming weeks and months, as we press in to him more
deeply?
Nicki
Copeland is a freelance writer, speaker, copy editor and proofreader – and
loves anything to do with words. She is the author of Losing the Fig Leaf
and Less than Ordinary? She is also responsible for the day-to-day
running of Instant Apostle publishers. When she has the luxury of some free
time, she can invariably be found with a book in one hand and some chocolate in
the other.
My idea of heaven, Nikki. I recently read all the Chronicles of Narnia again while enjoying some quiet time and it was bliss. You're right, we are all going to have to expect changes, but while pressing in ever closer to God.
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ReplyDeleteI am really not good at facing new challenges but it is somewhat comforting to know that I am one of millions having to adapt! We're all in the same rocky boat. So, as I battle with having to move all my tutoring from face-to-face to online, grappling with Skype and interactive online whiteboards and dodgy internet connections, I am trying to remember I'm very much not alone, and that keeps my heart rate down ;)
ReplyDeleteYes, indeed. I've just recorded a short devotional for my church online group - seriously out of my comfort zone...!
DeleteThanks Nicki. This is great. I've been on day retreats before but never one that long. I too love the stillness and silence. I must admit I'm not personally finding being at home a hardship - time for the novel - and feel slightly guilty about it, when I know it's hard for so many. This post gives me the freedom to enjoy it as well at pray for those who can't.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Deborah. Yes, it's important that we acknowledge how we feel without feeling guilty. We're all challenged by different things. Like you, this is less of a challenge for me than for other members of my family, and I'm praying for them, and for all for whom this is really difficult, for various reasons x
DeleteGreat article, thanks Nicki! Life is still busy our end, having the kids at home and like Fran, adjusting to online teaching or tuition in my case, but so good to focus on our blessings at this time.
ReplyDeleteThank you Nicki. I used to go on retreats every year but haven't since the one I was using closed down. But Marilyn and I are (
ReplyDeletesupposedly) leading a retreat at St Katharine's in august. Thanks for your inspiration.