Regret, Resentment, Pride or Nostalgia?            BY OLUSOLA SOPHIA ANYANWU

It is interesting what kind of bizarre thoughts come in to one’s mind. As I watched the coronation of King Charles 111, such filtered through my mind, reeling through scores of years ago, the way a random kite is sometimes seen in the sky. Thoughts about what other countries who had deposed of their own monarchies might feel or think. Regret?   Resentment?   Or nostalgia. Whatever!  The ceremony birthed a fable told in black communities about the dog and his mother. This is my embellished version from my creative pot.

A long time ago, there was a very severe famine in the land of the animals. They decided to have a meeting to find a solution to the food scarcity. Leaving their mothers to look after their families, they gathered in a big open space pondering for hours without a solution. Then the tortoise came up with the solution… All the animals hastened back home to carry out the tortoise’s ‘brilliant’ plan but the dog thought differently. So he went home and prayed to God about his predicament. God heard his prayer and gave him a solution: he took his mother to a designated spot, where a basket was let down from the sky, on a rope.

The dog received food from the basket and his mother was taken up to the sky.  After all the animals had killed and eaten their mothers, the famine ceased and the dog’s mother returned to be reunited with her family!

  I can imagine the regret, pain, guilt and anger those animals felt when the famine was over because they had killed their mothers! I know how I feel when I think of my diaries ranging from 1968 to 1988 which I burned because I thought I had shared too much ‘intimate’ information in them. Do you also have regret for writings you have destroyed or do you have thoughts from long ago that fleet through your memory? It’s never too late to recapture the past in our writings. Patience, endurance, persevereance and prayers are great skills we need for our writing. It is always well in the end! I am writing a memoir that will hopefully recapture my destroyed diaries.

We all know the story of how Israel moaned to God about wanting to be like other nations who had kings ruling them. God warned Israel  about the disadvantages of a monarchy through Prophet Samuel: ' He will take your best fields and vineyards... He will take a tenth of your corn... When that time comes, you will complain bitterly... but the Lord will not listen to your complaints.' I Samuel 8:14 - 18  but Israel insisted on their wish. How did Israel feel about the monarchy under the reigns of the likes of King Ahab, Rehoboam, etc? Israel did not want God to rule over them any longer!!! I thank God for our Lord Jesus Christ ,who reigns over us all individually! Let us like that dog always turn to God in our challenges of life. UK Monarchy provides fodder for historical fiction writers amongst us!

 I pray that God’s will for the UK continues and  that Christian writers, of whatever genre, will continue to be inspired on Earth as it is in Heaven. AMEN.

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Sophia Anyanwu lives in SE London with her loving, God fearing husband and two blessed daughters. She’s an educationist, encourager, reviewer, author and poet. She's an active grandmother to 7 grandchildren when she's not writing.   She is a member of the Association of Christian Writers, UK and has published 14 books which are available on her website: www.olusolasophiaanyanwuauthor.com and Amazon.  You can subscribe to her YouTube channel here: https://bit.ly/3j0oPuy and follow her on all social media here: https://bit.ly/3UG36Kx

 

 

 

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  1. Thank you.for sharing your thoughts Sophia. The dog and the mother is a story I'd never heard before. Its good to go to God first with all our decisions. Hopefully that means less regrets! I regret not believing my writing was good enough to share!

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    1. Thank you Joy! One can mever go wrong with going to God first. Less regrets as you say! Blessings.

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  2. What a strange story. Is God testing the dog when He offers a solution to the problem? Or is the message behind it 'Look before you leap'? I wonder how such a story came to be told in the first place.

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    1. There are so many such 'strange' stories with moral lessons - some explict and some implied. They may have come about to teach lessons, warn people, share wisdom, encourage patience or some other virtue, etc. These stories were in the form of anthropomorphism so that people can relate more to their meanings. I think the point here is that in a God believing community, people should trust God and not rely on human solutions to a personal or communal problem. Blessings.

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  3. This is such an interesting reflection, Sophia. The British Monarchy is a strange thing. A significant number of us probably do think it is outmoded, and wasteful, and should go: and yet it means so many different things to others which we cannot really quantify: an attachment to tradition, a sense of identification with our history, a love of symbolism, a need for continuity, as well as a love of excitement, theatre, pageantry, extravagant wealth on public display, and many other things. Yes, we often fear we may regret hasty, deluded decisions to destroy or abandon 'treasures' of the past. I have kept all my journals from 1968 to 1978 along with a lot of my writing 'juvenilia' even though there may be much in it that's immature, silly or boring. I feel it is unique and irreplaceable, a kind of 'horcrux' of my young, hopeful self (Sheila aka SC Skillman).

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  4. Sheila, I'm glad you still have your diaries! What a treasure. You are right to say that it is unique and irreplaceable. That was what the mothers are in the story above. I guess a lot of people do not know the value of something until it's gone forever. Thanks for commenting. Blessings.

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  5. Thank you, Sophia, beautifully written

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    1. By the way this is Wendy H. Jones. My blogger profile kee[ps disappearing

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    2. Thank you, Wendy. That is encouraging! Blessings.

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  6. We were on Lindisfarne during the corination, felt good to be away from the pomp and pagentry. Always good to hear fables and legends. Thank you for sharing.

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