BREAKING THE MOULD OF NOT WRITING
How can we marry God’s call on us to write with our fears and life’s practicalities?
Our
hearts long to respond. Pleasing God will please ourselves. Above all, we want
to serve, whether by writing a cracking story with a message, like Jesus told,
or offering guidance through reflections, meditations and poetry.
Doubt
Yet sitting
down to write often doesn’t make it anywhere near the top of our To Do List.
Doubt
overcomes us. We respond to His call with, “Surely not me, God?”
How
can we do this knowing that, one day, we will be accountable? One day, we will stand
before Him and try to explain what we did with our ten talents. Or our one. What will we say then?
Speculative
My own
challenge through the years has been that writing is speculative. Mum would wax
lyrical about, “going out to business”, by which she meant becoming a
shorthand-typist. “You’ll always have money in your pocket,” she would say.
Writing
seemed a self-indulgent luxury, a whimsical way of spending my time.
Practicality
has stood me in good stead in many aspects of life. But it took God hollering,
“There. Now write that!” after bringing me to faith in Jesus in a highly
dramatic way, to galvanize me into writing a book.
Lonely
Another
detractor is that writing is lonely. We do it shut away in a room or at the
back of Pret or Café Nero, (when that is allowed.) More than anything else, Covid
has underscored to me the value of human warmth, fellowship kindness and
physical presence.
Self-sufficient
as I am, (I know that’s a sin – I’m working on it), I yearn for the kind of closeness
I used to have and didn’t know it, a closeness like that of Acts 2—teaching,
fellowship, breaking bread together, prayer, sharing, meeting in the temple
courts, praising God, (v.44-47).
Busy
Because
writing causes us to doubt our ability, seems an indulgence and is a desperately
lonely pursuit, we find ourselves other things to do. These displacement
activities take priority and voilà! We are too busy to write.
Which
means we don’t do what God is asking of us.
I
have two small but powerful remedies to offer. If you have others, please put
them in the comments:
1.
Get closer to
God in order to hear Him better. Pray at all times with all kinds of prayers.
Pray every time you write, as you write, while you plan to write.
2.
Link with other
Christian writers in worship and fellowship and mutual accountability, to
encourage one another.
ACW
Competitions Manager Bobbie Ann Cole is an Amazon no.1 bestselling author who
offers courses and groups aimed at encouraging and inspiring Christian writers
to write. Her report: ‘10 Reasons Christian Writers Don’t Write and 1
Compelling Reason They Do’ is available free at www.forchristianwriters.com.
I find it helps having to meet a deadline, Bobbie. I write for an bi-monthly online magazine which I have to find either a travel article or interview for each month and of course, at present, there are my lectures and college assignments. However, before the MA course began I had a period of being discouraged and having little motivation to write. I hope at the end of this course in the summer to give myself regular projects and deadlines to keep the motivation going and do a few courses, including yours.
ReplyDeleteI would love you to join my course, Sheila Johnson.
DeleteEating the Scroll which is a Bible-based course to motivate and inspire writers so that they can write with joy and confidence will run again this June.
DeleteI think that perhaps motivating ourselves as writers is so hard just because, as you say, Bobbie, it's such a solitary occupation. Wandering around giving yourself a stern talking to in Pret (Now come on! You know you can do this!) will attract strange looks and sitting gazing at a blank screen is hideous. ACW have been my encouragers, my running mates and my inspiration. Getting together with other writers who say "yes, we get it" is so wonderful.
ReplyDeleteYes, Ruth Leigh, ACW is priceless. I love the image of you wandering around like someone talking to themselves (or with earbuds from their mobile phone) in Pret.
DeleteThis is so encouraging. It's true that the support of fellow Christian writers is so powerful. We strengthen and uphold each other with prayers that are specific to the writing journey.
ReplyDeleteAgreed. Otherwise it's just too lonely.
DeleteThis is so encouraging. The support of fellow Christian writers is powerful. We uphold and strength each other through prayers specific to the writing journey.
ReplyDeleteThis was just what I needed to read today. So thank you Bobbie. I have been struggling to get back into writing and realised that I need prods and pokes from people as well as God. Even He isn't enough at times to get the momentum going again!!!
ReplyDeleteThere's lots of resistance from Bible Characters, Jo, as you know. God says: I will be with you. What more could we need?
DeleteI think it is the busy part of it all that gets in the way for me: having to write as well as having to be a house wife, a grand mother, a career woman, a wife and a mum. All these pull their bits and attention out of me. So, what I have done, I have used the Lord's prayer to take things moment by moment at a day at a time. So in the morning, my daily bread is to ask God for the grace to do kitchenwork, house cleaning, laundary and the strength to baby sit if it is part of the day or days as well.I also ask God for the motivation and grace to write. God always helps. I've been up since 5.30am,and I have done kitchen work, house cleaning and laundary. I have done some tv watching and social networking as well but no writing yet. God will give grace to cook, to babysit my grandkids coming tomorrow and the grace to do some writing, even if it is just to edit previous writing! God always comes through!!
ReplyDeleteYour routine reminds me of the time in my life when, weakened badly by cancer, I considered it a good day if I could do two things - walk the dog and cook the supper. Sadly I meditated in a new agey way at that time, rather than said the Lord's Prayer.
DeleteI would add that God brought me through it, and I knew that much.
DeleteI have been working on a novel for some while, all day Monday and Friday, and that hasn't changed. It spans the years 1918-27, so I disappear into the world of the book. A couple of years ago, I became part of a poetry workshop. In bricks and mortar time, it was held every 4 weeks. I didn't always go, prioritising church events or singing. Last spring, it moved online and is held more frequently, so I am going more often. The need to write something for each workshop becomes a last-minute panic but I always do something. The other things I write are occasional meditations or paragraphs at the Lord's prompting or if I'm asked to for the Church's Weekly News, e.g. I was one of several asked to write about why Christmas is special to me. For a variety of reasons, there can be times when any writer can find it difficult, or impossible, to write. In my experience, there has always come a time when I have been able to sit down at my writing table again, and with fresh eyes.
ReplyDeleteThere is huge joy in disappearing into our story world, isn't there Janet? Sounds to me that everything else apart from your novel's world needs a deadline - deadlines always help.
DeleteCompletely agree! For me the self-doubt - the "nobody wants to hear your thoughts!" gets in the way mostly. I love your tips. For me I just have to schedule the time to write and just write - anything at all - often with pen and paper, until the ideas flow and there is something to work with. But I rarely know what to do with the finished product.
ReplyDeleteHow about starting out with 'Who does this help?' Dawn? That would point you towards your potential market.
DeleteOh wow, Bobby, I can identify with all your points. I know God wants me to get in with it and for years I've put His request to the bottom of my priority list mainly because my family didn't see it as anything other than a hobby that you do when you have time. No more, it's more important to listen to my Father. Great post. Thank you, Bobby. Xx
ReplyDeleteGreat to read that you are encourage, Nikki. Go for it!
DeleteI apologise for the lateness of my responses to this post. It was my first for the More Than Writers Blog and I didn't think about comments. I will do, going forward.
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